What's the biggest lie?

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What's the biggest lie we tell ourselves?

That we don't care about what people think of us. We do care. A lot. More than we would like to admit. 

We are looking for validation. Validation for us being alive. Validation for a meaningful life.

And we know it's a farce. 

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